18. Stop holding grudges. – Don’t live your life with hate in your heart. You will end up hurting yourself more than the people you hate. Forgiveness is not saying, “What you did to me is okay.” It is saying, “I’m not going to let what you did to me ruin my happiness forever.”
(Marc from marcandangel.com)
I guess I’m like 5 months late to post this, but I just now stumbled upon the artice while browsing through the web. In the first place I shouldn’t let the article go uncommented since I think there are some elements that should not be generalized that easily. In particular because there will be folks reading and feeling that article which maybe are not reflecting their lives and actions as much as the writer does.
Due to my immanent lack of free time I will have to let all of you go just with the note above: Do not stop reflecting upon your life.